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Phantom Finders Events are a paranormal investigation team based in Yorkshire. Yorkshire is a particular hot bed for paranormal activity, … More

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Over the last few days I've seen an increase of posts about how certain things aren't allowed to be joked about... Apparently we shouldn't joke about cancer, suicide, abortion, rape, death, paedophilia and I'm sure there's a shit load of other stuff we aren't "allowed" to joke about. I find lots of things to be hilarious, I've been told some pretty sick jokes about some seriously horrific topics and do you know what I did? I laughed! Because they were funny! Recently I shared my blog post about being raped, so you'd probably automatically think I don't want to hear a joke about it, if it's funny I'd love to hear it! I can differentiate between the topic that isn't funny and the joke that is funny. In my opinion nothing is off limits. Censoring me from your abuse jokes just reminds me that I'm potentially still viewed as a victim. And I don't want to be. In my life I've been affected by abuse, trauma, death, suicide, cancer. Like many people have! But I can still appreciate a good joke about any of those things. Shortly after a friend died by suicide someone made a joke about hanging themselves (pretty standard in my circle of friends) then realised what they'd said and then the atmosphere got weird... I just want people to know I'm not easily offended. Please tell me your sick jokes because life is way too short to be offended by everything. Ricky Gervais is my hero 😍 #rickygervais #sickjokes #offensive #jokes #laugh #whysoserious #nothingisofflimits #jokeaboutanything

This is the face of someone who sat and filmed 2 vlogs and then ummed and ahhed over whether they're good enough to post or if they even make any sense 🤔😂 #vlogger #indecisive #justdoit #overthinker #smile #books #disneyheadband

I genuinely cannot deal with how cute this little splodger is 😍 #toocute #adoptdontshop #catsofinstagram #housepanther #meow #catbandit #stretch

Yes it's a Baby G watch... No this isn't the 90s, sadly. (This isn't an ad neither!) And yes it's set an hour ahead, I never bothered to change it.. I just wanted to explain some time issues to you perfect people out there. I used to be half an hour early for everything, my anxiety made it so. Unfortunately my anxiety is now making me late for everything. I'm not unorganised or rude, I'm just nervous, panicked and probably sat on my stairs having an anxiety attack. I hate the "if you're on time you're late" saying, it just makes me feel worse about being late! It takes me a bloody long time to leave the house due to having to triple check everything and my brain constantly telling me to not go where ever it is in going... And no this isn't an excuse, it's just a heads up for you to not be such a douche if someone is running a little late. You have no idea what it has taken for them to just leave the house. #mentalillness #anxiety #time #late #early #ontime #panic #babyg

I just read a tweet that said something along the lines of "for every minute you're angry that's a wasted 60 seconds of happiness" or something similar to that. And whilst I understand the sentiment I also don't fully agree with the statement. Although it is unhealthy to hang on to anger and negative thoughts, you do still need to feel different emotions. You are allowed to be angry, mad, sad. All of those feelings are valid and you need to feel them in order to grow and change. Don't deny yourself negative feelings, just don't dwell there. I didn't have a picture of me being angry, mad or sad because I don't tend to take pictures of those things... so here's me and my cat 😍 #emotions #feel #anger #mad #sad #grow #change #catsofinstagram #smile #happy

I have many staff meetings... #selfemployed #staffmeeting #talktomyself #lovemylife #lovemywork

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